Monday 22 July 2013

Loreto Convent Shillong..........

The long driveway that looped towards the entrance was lined with elegant pines. The gates within opened into another world altogether, a world where our innocent young minds would be moulded and polished and readied to face life with self respect and dignity.  

Our little hands held on to our parent’s, jittery at what held beyond as we walked in anxiously through the gates and caught the first glimpse of the fountain surrounded by flowers bordering the fresh lawn that welcomed us.  This was where we would spend the most beautiful years of our lives.  The building represented old glory and grace of the British period, the doors had brass knobs that gleamed as the sun’s rays fell on them, and the wooden floors were polished.  We were called into the 'Parlour’ this was the waiting room where all the visitors were asked to sit. It was love at first sight as we walked in. Sister Celine met us – she was elegance personified. She spoke softly and led us to her office.

Forms were filled and formalities completed and we became a part of this institution.....an institution whose name we would hold in great pride throughout our lives....Loreto Convent Shillong.

For the next ten years this was going to be our home, a building which till today continues to entice us, the sloping flower beds maintained by the hard toiling malis, the summer house shrouded with  mystery, the main hall with its piano in one corner lined with chairs on both sides , the tennis courts which continue to remind us of the various fetes held during our time, and the campus, where we would play games like the Danish Rounders or have our march pasts each Friday when each house would try and outdo the other; the boundary walls lined with jacaranda trees where we’d spend many a lunch break playing with friends,  the light green and the dark green staircases that led to the senior classes, the water tank, the little nursery with its doll house, the smoke bellowing from the kitchen chimneys , the sports day, the annual concerts, the statue of Mother Mary that stood amidst the first floor senior classes, or the wall next to the old Dorm where picture frames of all the passed out batches were neatly displayed...these were just a few, amongst the various memories that would go on to bind all Loreto girls, irrespective of which year we passed out or where were we currently placed.

We came from different backgrounds, from tea gardens, family businesses, defense officers, government officials, doctors and some even from royal families. But once we joined school, we belonged to just one community – Loreto.

We were taken to our first dreamland - the nursery – a sweet cosy room in one hidden corner of the building where the small girls would play and learn. We then graduated  to the junior wing where many generations before and a few lucky ones after us would get introduced to Kong Irene – a loving lady with a stern exterior – she would help us sharpen pencils and shout at us if we misbehaved. Our teachers Mrs Ahmed, Mrs Warjiri, Mrs Dcosta....all of whom patiently laid the foundation for the years ahead.

While Mrs Shome read out stories from thick books as we sat listening intently, Sister Rita taught us how to pronounce correctly separating the ‘W’ and the ‘V’. Maths became more interesting under Sister Carmel’s and Mrs Dey’s supervision and geography under Mrs Lepcha gave the boring globes and maps a whole new meaning. Be it history or art, Mrs Bhattacharjee, Mrs Khan, Mrs Sagar,Mrs Wilson, Mrs Das, Mrs Hassan, Mrs Mahanta, Mrs Dutta, Mrs Roy ...we had the best teachers, some of whom were ex-students themselves.

The joy of reaching the sixth standard gave us a new high, because we were now going to be in the senior league. This was also the first time that we were assigned houses...Tagore, Nehru, Gandhi and Naidu – we continue to be loyal to them till today. But being in the senior school also meant a lot more discipline as we were now the ideals for our juniors.   Skirts should fall just at the knee, not an inch higher and not an inch lower, the knife pleats sitting sharply in place, the shirts and the socks were whitest white, socks had to be at knee length, no rolling them down, red ties, grey blazers and we were ready to go.....we stood with our feet joined at the heel and when we sat, our backs were upright, nails clipped and hair tied in a neat pony tail. We spoke in soft tones and knew when to use ‘Please’ and ‘Thank you’. We were taught the importance of charity and dignity of labor, to respect our domestic help and to care for those less privileged than us. Our visits to the chapel, irrespective of which religion we belonged to, during exams was more like a ritual – the silence and serenity of the chapel could only be felt and not explained. Moral Science was an important class which was never sacrificed at the cost of subjects like Science or Maths, because we knew, that being educated meant more than just good grades. All this was a part of our metamorphosis from an unsure scared tiny-tot to a confident young lady.

Our teenage years, filled with secrets and gossips, not to forget the most looked forward visit to the St Edmund’s school for their annual sports day...we were expected to be on our best behavior and there would be no talking to the boys, we would be strictly watched over by the teachers accompanying us. In spite of that, all such trips lead to new gossips and relationships, out of which a few resulted in lifelong bonds.

Years passed and we branched out to give wings to our dreams.  We were in for a shock initially as we faced the harsh world, there was little place for our delicate mannerisms, but with our kind of training, we learnt to face it all as we had aptly learnt during our school days -  

And when our school days ended are
And our varied paths divide
O may the ideals of our youth
Still ever be our guide
High ideals of purity, of duty, and of truth
Learnt while we bore Loreto's flag
In the sunny days of youth.......

Loreto’s banner gaily floats
In lands both East and West
Loreto’s name each girl reveres
And holds it ever blest....!!

4 comments:

  1. This one is an absolute masterpiece :-) I enjoyed reading this and as I did the images and the scenes unfolded in my mind's eye .. This is good stuff indeed Thanks for sharing :-)

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  2. Hi Shruti,
    Great write up!For a few moments after reading your article I was in "Wonder years" -1983-1993!Sitting here at work in Auckland,New Zealand and looking out of my window far beyond the pacific is St Edmunds-shillong-India.
    Memories cant fade and its the upbringing from the school and the teachers that one fondly remembers.
    Funny though I was looking for past blogs from Edmundians I could relate to from the 90's and I came across yours.
    From an edmundian perspective-You looked forward to St edmunds sports and we would look forward to Pinemount girls coming to our school for the ICSE exams.Those ICSE Exams were nerve wrecking days and some lads had the knack and the bollox to pick up a conversation with the Pinemount girls during recess.The Pinemount snobs played "Hard to get"but eventually some lads could crack em up while some characters lamented for the rest of their lives like Ernest hemingway and buried their heads in Poetry like faggots!
    I for one visited an LC school fete back in the day and there was a song request played out and I remember someone dedicating a song to me from ronan keating and I could never figure it out who it was...element of mystery lingered...
    Its been 9 years since I left India and now a Citizen of New Zealand/USA and I shall one day come to visit Shillong and my school and will surely see a lot of changes...
    My adopted hometown-Auckland-reminds me of shillong at times and
    I wonder if the days of innocence of the early 90'is still there in shillong...

    Sumit Lanong

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    1. Hi Sumit,

      Am glad you liked reading this piece...yes, Shillong has left some fond memories in our lives and no matter which part of the world we live in, the Shillong connection remains...
      Shillong has changed quite a bit, but thankfully our schools look the same. My husband is from St Edmund's 1989-90 batch,so that took us to visit both the schools (Edmund's and LC) during our last visit in 2007, and they looked just the same as when we were there.....
      Hope you can make your trip to Shillong and your school soon :)
      I had written a small piece on Shillong as well, on this blog.... hope you enjoy reading that too...

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